Ladies and gentlemen,
What is the simplest way to dismantle society?
Please read the following words:
The government bill, which we have worked on for over 2 years, has 1 basic objective: to give real legal protection to people who live together, love each other, go together through life, run a common household – regardless of their sex – This is simply a quote from a speech by the erstwhile “minister” on equality by Catherine Kotula.
And the bill in question is, of course, the law on the position of the closest individual and the common life agreement.
Unfortunately, shortly after these words fell from the Sejm's mouthpiece, this proposal was adopted by the Sejm at first reading and aimed at further work in the committee.
This should be a clear sign that the current government is striving to enable same-sex couples to marry legally!
But what does this gotta do with disassembling society?
Well, contrary to what progressive politicians, media and activists are trying to tell us, it will not be a process indifferent to our functioning.
The fact that “under the “three” will be inhabited by a household with 2 daddies” will not be without influence on our future.
In time, we will see the disastrous effects of specified actions:
- less marriages – due to the fact that why take on so many obligations erstwhile the same benefits can be obtained without requirements;
- Deepening the demographic crisis – due to the fact that little unchangeable (from the assumption) relationships are little safety that is needed to decide on children;
- more broken families – thus, and those who are already always followed by the consequences of the breakdown of their parents' relationship;
- weakness of institutionswhich best and most effectively protects the needs of the youngest generation;
- weakening social tieswhich are based on families;
- the request to regulate the position of children in specified families, which means introduction of the right to adopt for single-sex couples, as well as allowing them to rise offspring as a consequence of the procedure in vitro or surrogate.
I am convinced that if we do not respond today, specified consequences will come – due to the fact that that is what we learn from the experience of countries that have already passed this path.
I believe that like me, you do not want specified a future for your children! Futures in a planet without strong ties, actual intimacy, and without the smallest community that supports social order – marriage.
If we want to avoid this future, we have no time to waste!
That is why I would like to ask you to aid us in the actions we take to defend the institution of marriage, to show its value and to convince you that it is the most beautiful way to meet the needs of love and life in our hearts in a relation with another man.
I late wrote to you that Government takes multi-track actions to weaken marriage: it is, on the 1 hand, pushing for another installment of partnerships, that is, the draft law on the position of the ‘closer person’, on the another hand, a proposal to let out-of-court divorces, as well as to change the model of civilian position papers so that alternatively of the words ‘woman’ and ‘man’ there are the words ‘first spouse’ and ‘second spouse’.
No request to explain that These steps are intended to lead to formal legalisation of same-sex relationships.
And although – as usual in the case of this government – everything is introduced by the back door, in order to lull the vigilance of Poles, we cannot be deceived that these are random actions.
In fresh days we see clearly that the rulers do not slow down.
At the session of the Sejm on 12 February, the first reading of the government's draft law on the position of the ‘closer person’ was held, which ended with his referral for further work. Given how crucial this task is to the Left, we can anticipate it to not go into the seismic freezer, but it will be pushed further.
All these movements are motivated by 1 argument: the alleged request to adapt Polish regulations to European Union law. The draft laws are intended to respond to the erstwhile rulings of the European Court of Human Rights, which stated that the absence of any form of designation and protection of single-sex unions violates Article 8 of the Convention – the right to respect for private and household life.
In fact, the judgement of the TEU is just an excuse to exert ideological pressure!
Polish law makes it clear: matrimony as a union between a female and a man, family, motherhood and parenthood are protected and cared for by the Republic of Poland.
And these words were already in place in the first part of the Constitution, in which the foundations of our state's strategy were described.
What does that mean?
Marriage as a union between a female and a man, family, motherhood and parenthood form the basis of the state's strategy – they are its foundation! To undermine them, attempting to undermine their stableness and weakening is simply a direct threat to the functioning of the State.
And that's what politicians in charge of us do. Their current moves, however, are only a certain consequence of the long-standing cultural offensive against matrimony and its family.
And with sadness, I must admit that this offensive is effective.
The number of married couples made is dropping dramatically, reaching little than 133 000 in 2025 compared to nearly 190 000 in 2015
In turn the number of divorces for years has remained high – in 2025 it was 61,000.
This data clearly shows that marriage, especially for young Poles, has ceased to be the most highly valued form of union. We besides see little and little value in fighting for them erstwhile conflicts and difficulties arise in the relationship.
However, we should not be peculiarly surprised. This is the consequence of a “working” society that has been going on for years!
The public debate has increasingly highlighted the function of mass culture and media in shaping the social thought of marriage.
Marriage serves only 1 sex, and the happiest are... singles.
I betrayed my husband, and I don't regret it. But I'm sorry I confessed to him.
Why is matrimony disappointing?
These are the titles of just a fewer of the hundreds of articles that bring a clear message: matrimony is simply a way of making yourself unhappy. It's a past we don't request anymore. Cuffs, killing our freedom and independence.
Such pseudo-intellectual mash is regularly fed to their readers (especially readers) the most crucial Polish portals.
Most popular messages present – present in series, amusement programs or social media – They emphasize first of all individualism, self-fulfillment and “independence” as the highest values in human relations. The social effect is obvious: gradual change in sensitivity and expectations towards relationships.
Young people grow up in an environment where the sustainability of a relation is no longer of apparent value, and the commitment is presented as a risk, not a safety foundation.
We request to realise that the dispute over the future of matrimony present is not only at the legal level, but at an equal level, possibly even more, in the sphere of culture and the subtle programming of public opinion.
Our answer must be to build a consistent alternative, affirmative message: showing matrimony as an area of common responsibility, development, kid safety and stableness for the full community.
Because whoever shapes the matrimony communicative will depend on who shapes the future.
So we want to take another brave step.
We are working on creating an online portal devoted entirely to matrimony – as a permanent, faithful and liable relation between female and man.
We want this to be a place of reliable formation, support in difficulties, but besides a space of affirmation of matrimony as a community and the foundation of the family.
The content that will go to the site will concern what is made up of matrimony everyday: communication, forgiveness and unity building. They'll besides be there. Problem analysis relating to social, legal and cultural challenges that affect the condition of marriages in Poland. Next to them we will present certificates of spouses – actual stories of struggles, overcome crises and restored love.
We do not want to make another website with clickbait titles!
We want to build a space that will truly form attitudes. – to show that matrimony is not a regulation of freedom but a way to mature love; it is not a relic of the past, but a proven foundation of a unchangeable society.
We request your aid to build specified a place online. The creation and administration of this kind of average is the cost of about PLN 10,000. It will include IT-related expenditure and remuneration for creators and administrators.
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Finally, I would like to tell you that we are implementing our announcements and expanding our presence in the media. It's the best way to break through the left-wing ideological cordon in reaching the public.
Recently, Aleksandra Gajek, an expert at the Center for Life and Family, took part in the PCH24 tv documentary entitled “To plow the family”. In the film, alongside, among others, Rafał Ziemkiewicz, Arkadiusz Stelmach or Paweł Lisicki, he analyses the solutions proposed by the government in terms of formalization of relationships, and besides indicates what the adoption of the law on the position of the closest individual in the relation will lead to. You can watch the video on YouTube.
There is besides work on a guide on marriage, which I wrote about any time ago. In the preparation of the publication, we explain how crucial the function of the matrimony community is, both individually and socially.
In this respect, we inactive observe a large deal of ignorance among Poles, who – which I must sadly admit – frequently submit to manipulation of media and politicians.
That is why so much depends on us – due to the fact that we are aware that we are undergoing a planned and deliberate socio-cultural change. In spite of the desperate attempts by the rulers to hide the actual intentions of all the laws that I mentioned earlier, we know what the changes they are going for.
We see how they destruct marriage, even though they want to hide their interests so badly.
Moreover, we know how this will end.
But we won't be looking at these processes passively!
Together we will stand up for the matrimony – informing, pointing out dependence, discovering manipulation.
I ask for your aid again. If we want young people who are facing a decision to marry to believe in the meaning of a lasting commitment, we must show them a fresh communicative about marriage.
The communicative from which they will learn that the ringing is not shackles, but built on a faithful and enduring relation between a female and a man's household is not the end of freedom, but the beginning of the most beautiful adventure of life.
Greetings.
Marcin Perłowski
Director of the Centre for Life and Family
