"I chose my daughter's name a long time ago, long before I was pregnant. I always liked the name Kalinka, so that was my main thought erstwhile I met the child's gender" - wrote 1 of the net users on the Facebook page @Is I Exaggerating?, which publishes anonymous stories and invites discussion. Eventually, however, the kid received a completely different name.
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"My husband did not rather like the name, but did not protest. erstwhile the baby was born, he started calling her Joasia. And so they accepted" - described the woman. She adds that "out of all this she agreed to this proposal".
Her mother-in-law chose her name. "The kid bears the beloved name of individual else"
Despite this, Mom was not rather happy with the decision she made. However, the bitterness of the kid spread a period after the birth of the child. "I found out that Joasia is simply a proposal from my mother-in-law, due to the fact that it's 'from always her beloved name'" - explained the author of the story.
Mother's upset she didn't push her proposal. She was besides upset that "her kid bears the beloved name of individual else," not hers. A female admitted that "everyday she thinks about changing her daughter's name".
Internet users spoke on this issue. any people think a female should be on her own. "Your kid and you choose the name. If your boy gives up on Mommy, stand up, or it'll get worse later. Go to the office and change your name to what you want. And your mother-in-law? Let him know that you have your mind. Give me that finger and I'll rip your hand out."
Others say that since the decision has been made, this is how it should remain: "Moment. Do you like that name or not? If you don't, then why did you agree to it, and if you like it, what difference does it make who picked it? 1 of my sons was named after my sister. She chose, so she offered. We liked it. So I chose my sister's name."
There are besides voices that matrimony should work on communication to prevent akin situations in the future. "Both of you work on communication between yourselves and don't let others interfere."
When can a child's name be changed?
This can be done within 6 months of the date of the birth certificate. In that case, no justification is needed. After that date, the amendment may only concern crucial reasons. The application must be filed with the civilian State Office.
Do you think a parent should change her daughter's name? Or should the decision stay final? Let me know: [email protected].
