Although Milena may not be able to take her maturity exam for another year, the subject is already emotional. A girl doesn't care about her graduation. He besides does not plan to proceed learning due to the fact that he believes that "in these days studies are pointless". Her father, however, has a very different view of the matter. He decided to convince her to take the exam... by making an different proposal.
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My daughter has been telling me for a long time that she won't be coming to the advanced school, calling the exam and preparing for him a "sun" and telling me that she's not going to request anything, due to the fact that present the planet works on different rules than before, whatever that means. The worst part is she's convinced of her point.
- said our reader [name for editorial news]. - And I, and my wife, and quite a few another people tried to talk to her. What if he's wrong? If he doesn't get to advanced school, he'll miss his college chance. And what kind of work would she go to without a higher education?
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My dad promised me an iPhone for graduation.
Our reader is aware that he will not force his daughter to force her to graduate. I feel like erstwhile she sees that I and my wife care about the exam, she makes us a small angry. The worst part is, the kid's gonna throw his life away. We've always given her the best and I think we've spoiled her, I think. Problems started in advanced school. My daughter began to learn worse, and she keeps telling me that you don't gotta have a advanced school degree to get a career and accomplish something. Her friends are nodding, but erstwhile I asked them if they would take the exam, no of them spoke. Of course they will, due to the fact that they most likely want to go to college," said the outraged father.
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Eventually, a man after many conversations made a decision that he would effort to... bribe his daughter. He made her an offer she knew would be hard to reject. Although he is aware that he should not do this due to the fact that it is uneducated, he admitted that "the drowning razors are grasping."
I've offered to offer Milena that if she comes to her GED and passes, I'll buy her the latest iPhone. 1 I know he's been dreaming about for a long time. My daughter is simply a large telephone fan, she keeps recording, writing, taking pictures. I know that the fresh iPhone is her dream. So I decided that I would fulfill it, but with 1 condition - first my M.A.
- said our reader. - And I hit a delicate point due to the fact that it doesn't deny it anymore, it doesn't tell its "matura" wisdom. She said she needed to think about it. And my wife and I see that she is seriously considering our proposal. I gave her until the end of May, told her she'd be ready for her exams in a year if she wanted to. And I feel like she'll agree. I'd be amazed if I didn't. So I may be doing the incorrect thing, but I'm doing it for the sake of my own child. And I believe I can do it, he summed it up.
Bribery is just bad? The pedagogues explain
We asked the pedagogue Anna Chmielewski whether specified a form of bribery is incorrect and what she thinks of the behaviour of the father who, out of concern for the future of his child, goes to this kind of action.
Bribery usually has a negative effect and is perceived as a means to get something in a little affirmative way, for example by buying decisions or manipulating. However, it is worth looking at this phenomenon a small wider, not taking different forms of bribery as equally harmful.
- explained the expert. "We can talk about a negative form of bribery erstwhile the reward becomes the only way to motivate the kid to act. As a result, this frequently results in the future not making much effort without a reward - she added.
The pedagogue pointed out that in the case of trying to bribe her daughter with an iPhone to enter her advanced school advanced school, it was primarily about the context, intentions and consequences of specified a form of motivation for the child. - It's good to get to the reason why a girl doesn't want to graduate. If she lacks motivation, struggles with fear or sense of sense of the exam itself, the promised award can indeed act mobilizing. The intent in this case is constructive, and "buy" can then aid to make an crucial life decision. In this peculiar situation specified a form of bribery is not clearly incorrect - she concluded.
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