The autism spectrum is not only a nuisance, steamy and tiring environment of narrow interest. They are besides beneficial qualities, not only for their "carriers". A full spectrum of additional skills that offer extraordinary ASC neural systems.
We were in a delicate period. The beginning of the year. It's time to make a decision. I'll eat better, sleep better, move. I'll buy a gym pass – and it's not only to watch shows, sitting on a treadmill. I'll drop the sugar. Pety. Toxic relationships. I'm going to cut down on the rolls. I will read more than “statistical Pole”. For example, I'm going to get Jack Hołub's story. I have everything more.Which means Life in the autism spectrum.
Let's take a minute to reflect. Sensory hypersensitivity. Executive paralysis. Steamy. But besides hypermemory. Encyclopedic cognition of a given assumption. And this extraordinary consequence in the implementation of the assumptions. But we have a period of fresh Year's resolutions... Diagnosis – autism. “After Medical” — ASC. Spectacular states.
Those words, in 1 or another combination, were most likely heard by everyone. That loads, that "another neural system". Popular present – and crucial for public awareness the word – neurodiversity. But does the reader truly know? What do you eat...?
Iza hasn't had it easy in her life. Toxic household relationships, problems with school integration. No acceptance. Self-inflicted. Harmful company. Yet it was with them that she did not feel excluded at last – even though the patch was "pathological". Although they did not avoid alcohol or another drugs – she did not drink herself, she did not experiment. Never. “Pathology” did not push. Your peers, yes. She couldn't realize it. Understand. This resulted in a deficiency of friends in the another “everyday” group. The girl she thought was a friend utilized to laughter at her in the company about doing childish things.
These experiences taught her to choose company carefully. Thanks to autism, she remained faithful to her values. – I thought to myself: after all, individual who yells at me, taunts me, or force me to be different, is not my friend. Finally, the most crucial conclusion: Thanks to autism, he remains faithful to his values. “Sometimes I feel arrogant that I am inactive a valuable man. I appreciate how much I've done to grow and live in a healthy environment. She besides found acceptance in the closest man: – I have a good family, a loving husband.
– He's not an autistic individual to me. This is Iza, my wife," says Mariusz.
Protective colours
Imagine that: You hear. See? You feel it. Tastes. Colours. And precisely in this configuration. Like Joanna. due to the fact that her neural strategy has an extraordinary function. It connects the senses. More precisely – 1 sense takes more. Extra sense. After “scientific” – synesthesia. He is incapable to talk erstwhile stressed, but feels the colors of emotions, sounds and people. And although these are not the emotions of these people – only Joanna's perception reception – has become accustomed to this lifelong state. It is ‘better’ than tired agoraphobia, sensory hypersensitivity or long-term PTSD (post-traumatic stress syndrome) – it is not pleasant to feel physical pain in contact with clothing or to frost to see a web.
But the colors. And so any have a red – a delicate surrounding around the character. He's avoiding them. Others are green or yellow. They are attracted to them, they are desirable colours – pleasant, as the emotions that their owners carry with them. Although Joanna's taking social relations beautiful hard. He lives in constant fear, which is hard to notice; he masks them well. Most of her friends are amazed by the diagnosis of the spectrum – after all, in her youth she was the soul of the company. – Social consciousness of autism is tragic. The loved ones I sent the diagnosis to ignored it. I wrote about my ex-husband's diagnosis. He said, "Twenty years I lived with you, you have no autism. A friend I've been close to since I was a kid said she wouldn't be friends with an autistic person. due to the fact that he thinks people in the autism spectrum don't have empathy, they don't effort to connect.
I'm pissed off by this deficiency of knowledge.
Over the years, she has learned to set boundaries.
– erstwhile individual hits me or touches me not as I want to, I know that, but if individual makes fun of me, he's sarcastic, he's hurting me, I'm confused. The correct diagnosis didn't come easily. She did not appear in youth, but much, much later. Joanna got it at 50! – For many years I had a duck phase. I was curious in their construction, where they are, where they go, how many eggs they can bear, how often, I began to learn Latin names. I could talk about ducks all the time. Later, listening to the conversations, I realized that possibly it was better if I didn't talk about those ducks anymore. possibly dogs. I was curious in dogs, but the dogs didn't truly work.
Finally, Joanna found her niche and environment – in old Indian prints. She is presently a professor, philolologist, linguist. The university gives her a break. The spectrum does not bother – it helps. The unique features of operation seem essential in its circumstantial work.
So it's never besides late – to yourself.
I've got a random rhythm.
W I have everything more We will besides meet more neuro-. A neuro-diverse couple. She's ASC. He – with ADHD. "Fairness Draws". Apparently. The sentences can be divided, but in the case of Dominika and Grzegorz this rule works. Each has its own deficits. And together? They complement each other. And they full accept.
Gregory’s hyperactivity “removes” the memory working area to the fish’s velon fish. That's a minimum. possibly even less. And that's how a Saturday breakfast of the chosen female does for almost 2 hours. Not for deficiency of desire, oh, no – these have. Just these resources... The veil fish, we remember.
As Dominica recalls – the kitchen after these 2 hours and 2 sandwiches is unrecognizable. But nothing tastes like Saturday breakfast. Even before noon. She'll figure it out anyway. Almost alphabetically stacking packages in a locker. due to the fact that Dominic likes order and he knows order. Pedant. If she could, she'd be ironing socks. This condition makes her happy. And erstwhile he has besides much stimulus, the Sin will break distant from his actions and calm her down.
That was expected to be a quote. But there will be no quote – not to spoil the impression that this part of the study is making.
Liquidity of exchange. Questions. any almost finished as partners. Full symbiosis – and loose. due to the fact that in an environment adapted to needs you can flourish. Like Gregory. And Dominic.
Conclusion
These are only 3 stories – from eleven. due to the fact that there's Peter-ascetic. And Edith and the boys. all part of paper from another clay. And the sex and infinity subject of which the eighteen - year - old Mychel (Mykie) tells. There is besides a description of masking and quoted at the end of the list of adults from the autism spectrum to parents of children with autism. And another. And more. And more. And harder.
Because the autism spectrum is not just a nuisance, steamy and tiring environment of narrow interest. They are besides beneficial qualities, not only for their "carriers". A full spectrum of additional skills that offer extraordinary ASC neural systems.
So there is something to scope for.
To get more. And harder. And more.
Because the dear reader can besides To have everything all the way.j.
On the shelf.
