I'll start with a fewer observations. Just in case, I'll stress that these are subjective insights, and possibly individual has another experiences, but I have one. In my opinion, for reasons that I could speculate about at most, the upbringing of Polish children (home and school) seriously neglects preparation for life in society. It's like a money cult has forced focus on what cognition gives the best chance a kid can rapidly and likely gain money in the future, ordering a layman to ignore the skills he considers little useful due to the fact that they seem besides simple and obvious. An example? Like a home budget. In Western European countries, it functions as a school subject. Poles inactive think that it is all fool who knows how to run a home economy, erstwhile credit is necessary, and erstwhile it is simply a threat, how to spread the proportions between fixed expenditures (accounts and food), and investments (remonts, science) and provisions for unexpected expenditure (disease, failure). Just think of all our friends who suck a penny to a penny, work hard, and then not out of a pulp, not out of a parsley, spend all their savings on a fresh car, so luxurious that then they drive on utilized tyres, due to the fact that this size costs a tiny luck and they can't afford it, or they don't want to go on long routes due to the fact that fuel is besides expensive.
T.Love – This Education
All right, they're economical and economical skills, but they're not the only negligence. There are besides soft and artistic and fitness skills in Poland. Soft, or individual culture, as well as the ability to negociate daily, solve conflicts (although the smallest ones, on the line of a child-adult or employer-employee), the ability to gain support, receive help, show gratitude. Artistic – it is known, but it can besides be distorted. It happens that a parent wants to make a child, e.g. a virtuoso piano or violin, from a tiny point of view, isolate him in a ellipse of classical music. Another parent would like to make a descendant of a planet champion in boxing or number 1 in tennis and spend a luck on murderous lessons. It will only ignore the tiny fact that the burden should be adequate to the degree of improvement of the kid and it is worth starting with something simple, possibly with dance music, pop, hits from Disney films and then increase the degree of difficulty. All right, that's enough!
Cult – perceive to this for you
A man called me asking me if I had any friends whose children started college. He was curious in how much they gave children to support, due to the fact that his daughter chose to survey at another academic center, although she had a very good choice on the place and requested an account of 6,000 per month. I had to ask my friends how much they were willing to give their children to study. I scanned my friends, turned to the 1 who fulfilled the conditions, and in addition, I am close adequate with him that I can ask questions about specified "intimate" matters as money. erstwhile I was paying for it, it turned out that the baby wasn't lying. Only by estimating her needs, she took advantage of the standards she was utilized to at home. During his advanced school education, the controlling father, alternatively of giving more money, but with the exception that he had to do anything, including clothes, cosmetics, cinema, cafe, preferred to give a modest allowance on a regular basis, but he preferred to give all the costly fanabers, specified as a fresh “srajphone”, mac’a laptop, clothes with a suitable tag, holidays far adequate and with adequate stars, approved and financed personally. Yeah, he and his spouse taught the kids that they needed costly and trendy, and he's paying the daddy who actually loved the function of all-powerful superman pulling out the magic card. His ass pain started erstwhile he was about to lose control of his daughter's expenses, not knowing what the money would go for. Returning to the cost of surviving on wells erstwhile I introduced them to a man, he first started yelling at me that my daughter did not even effort to find a place in a college dorm and immediately chose private, appropriately expensive, that without consulting him she chose a distant place to study, that what kind of dinners that cost 1500 zlotys per month, etc., etc.! I don't know what I gotta do with it. I was not the 1 who negotiated with my daughter the place and kind of studies and the method of funding. Besides, I guess he didn't negociate either, he was just terrified of the deficiency of control. By the way, I wrote a small earlier about underestimating soft skills. The way the questioner treated me shows that he has a immense problem with them. And the consequences? Well... I would put it as "not my circus, not my monkeys." I helped, I was fucked for getting to the facts, keep doing it, man. There's nothing else I can do.
Turbo – Adult children
Another reflection about the education of Poles came to me erstwhile I read with the right author a somewhat ironic sense of humor of telling “On the Dredication of Crucroses” from my passionately read blog “Nitager Stories” (I recommend). I fishy that, in fact, as Nitager foretold there, contemporary youths in the years of respective decades will be ridiculed by their own children for not being able to fool around, just as present they mock their educators for not being able to download drivers, apps, or pay close. There's only 1 silenced nuance. It is us, that is, our generation, who have taught young people present to laughter at the deficiency of skills and everything that others do not have. We were the first to make fun of young people that they couldn't hold the file in their hand, replace the gaskets in the faucet, put the smoothies on the wall, and even mow the grass with a scythe. And it was our generation that was a generation of shortsighted morons who didn't even dream that a kid could do something better than us, and that in any cases we would be dependent on his help. ZYG, ZYG, ZYG, MARCHEWA!!! You should have utilized your brain!
